You’re not losing your mind—this is a surprisingly common problem, and in most cases it has a boring physical explanation, not anything mysterious.
Here are the most likely causes of holes appearing in clothes (tiny to large):
🧵 1. Friction + wear (most common)
Small holes usually form where fabric rubs repeatedly:
- Waistbands (jeans button/rivet rubbing shirts)
- Belt area
- Underarms (deodorant + friction weakens fabric)
- Between thighs (pants wear-out)
👉 This is the #1 cause of “mystery holes.”
🦟 2. Moths or fabric pests (especially stored clothes)
Clothes in cupboards can be damaged by larvae that eat natural fibers.
Signs:
- Irregular small holes
- Mostly in wool/cotton items stored away
- Worse in humid or dark storage areas
🧺 3. Washing machine damage
Holes can happen from:
- Zippers, hooks, or sharp edges in the drum
- Overloading the machine
- High spin cycles weakening fabric over time
- Mixing rough items with delicate clothes
🧴 4. Chemical damage
- Strong bleach or harsh detergents
- Deodorant/antiperspirant buildup (especially underarms)
- Acidic sweat over time weakening fabric
🔥 5. Heat damage (less obvious)
- Iron set too hot
- Dryer overheating synthetic fabrics
🧠 How to quickly identify your cause
- Holes at waistband/arms → friction
- Holes after storage → moths
- Random spots after washing → machine or detergent
- Underarm holes → deodorant + sweat + friction combo
🧾 How to stop it
- Check washing machine drum for sharp edges
- Wash delicate clothes in mesh bags
- Don’t overload machine
- Store clothes in sealed bags if moths suspected
- Use milder detergent
- Rotate clothes (don’t overuse favorites)
🧠 Bottom line
This is almost always mechanical wear, washing damage, or moths—not anything mysterious or “energy” related.
If you want, tell me:
- where the holes appear on your clothes
- what fabrics (cotton, jeans, T-shirts)
- whether it happens after washing or while wearing
I can pinpoint the exact cause more precisely.

